How to Prepare for Your Engagement Session | Arizona Engagement Photographer

Planning & preparing for your engagement session.

For the most part - majority of people haven’t had professional photos taken. So it’s totally normal if you’re not sure what to expect or even if you’re a little nervous. It’s a big deal! Whether we’re documenting your engagement or just celebrating your love, these photos are important & memories you’ll be able to hold onto forever.


You may be coming from out-of-state for your engagement photos in Arizona. It can be a little overwhelming deciding exactly where you want to have your photos taken, what will fit your comfort level, and narrowing down what aspects of the desert you want showcased in your photos.

Fear not though, I’m here to help you. I talk a lot about elopement planning, but I help plan for engagement photos just as much!


The Process:

•Once you’re booked and we have a date set, I’ll send over my detailed location guide. This features spots I’ve photographed all throughout the Phoenix metro (or all of Arizona, depending on where you want your session). I share insight on specific trails, what time of day is best, what type of crowds to expect, and just how to prepare in general.

•After you narrow down what spots you like the most, I’ll send over some full galleries from those areas to give you a better idea of what each location has to offer. This also shows the different lighting scenarios you can expect depending on the time of day & type of weather.

•Then once you two have chosen a spot, I can help with outfit ideas and color schemes. Arizona is an extremely different climate from most areas and it’s no surprise that certain colors stand out better against the oranges and reds of the desert.

I’ll help prepare you for what to expect the day of your session. We’re celebrating you two being engaged so I want your photos to be as stress-free as possible. I’ll help pose and prompt you both the entire time so no need to worry about knowing what to do with your hands or how to stand - that’s what I’m here for!


Ultimately my goal is for your engagement session to just be a fun day where the two of you get to hang out together, be yourselves, and celebrate your love before you get married.

I’ll also probably be your tour guide the whole time pointing out what different cacti are and the surrounding mountains.


What to prepare for:

We’ll start off simple with some classic poses that get you two comfortable & relaxed in front of the camera. I promise you - everyone thinks they look awkward, but you never actually do. When you’re not used to having a photographer up close when you’re hugging & kissing each-other, it’s normal to overanalyze your every move. Once we get into the flow of things though & you get used to the sound of my camera, things will flow smoothly. We’ll transition into more prompts & poses & I’ll capture you two just interacting with each-other.

My engagement sessions are typically anywhere from 1 to 2 hours. This gives us time to explore a lot of scenery & capture the changing light.


What to bring:

  • Comfortable shoes to walk in

  • Change of clothes (either a backup outfit or just an outfit for after your session depending on the weather)

  • Backpack/bag to carry everything (ie. keys, phone, water, wallets, etc).

  • WATER - this is the desert & even in the winter it is DRY out here

  • Blanket - a great option for sitting/laying down photos!

  • Comb/hair brush, make-up, compact mirror for touch-ups if needed

  • Accessories - add in a hat or jacket to easily change up your outfit


What to wear:

This is truly up to whatever you & your partner feel comfortable in. You by no means have to wear “dressy” or “formal” wear for your engagement photos. These are photos you’ll be able to look back on for your entire lives, so you want to be able to see these photos & really feel like they encompass who you both are.

My biggest suggestion is that you don’t want to have contrasting styles. If one of you is wearing a nice dress, but the other has on a t-shirt & running shoes - that’s when you may want to look at other options for how your outfits can work together. You don’t need to be matchy-matchy, just enough that the style of your clothing works well together. If you’re going to have more than 1 outfit, I typically suggest 1 casual & 1 dressy option to give you the best of both. Wear something that’s comfortable, you can move around in, & won’t wrinkle too easily!


Where to go:

This is one of the toughest decisions because there are SO many options. Some things to consider - do you want desert landscapes? Water? Tall saguaros? City views? Red rocks?

Do you want to go up north towards Sedona or the pine trees of Flagstaff? Or head down south to the thick saguaros in Tucson?

My blog post about Seven of the Best Spots for Engagement Photos in Phoenix may be a good place to start - check it out here.


Embrace the Unexpected:

We may end up with rain, crazy wind, snow (yes, even in AZ), unexpected crowds, an overcast day, or so many other things. And I know how hard it can be to try & accept these things when in your head you’ve probably imagined the “perfect” day. No matter what happens though, it can still be your version of a perfect day (just with some minor tweaks).

We’ll plan ahead as much as we can to prepare for what could happen (I’ve learned to keep spare ponchos & hand warmers in my car on the regular) & we’ll take it for what it is. Because no matter what the weather is or what ends up happening, it’s going to be an amazing, memorable day & let’s face it - sometimes crazy weather can make things even more memorable.

And if you’re worried about anything affecting your photos - trust me, photographers accept all types of weather with open arms. We’re prepared for this & our biggest concern is just that you & your partner have the best time.


FAQ:

Q: How long is an engagement session?

A: 1-2 hours depending on which package you choose!

Q: How many outfits can we bring?

A: 1-3 outfits depending on which package you choose!

Q: Can we bring our pets?

A: Absolutely! Just let me know ahead of time so we can plan accordingly. I always suggest bringing someone else along so that they can watch your animals during the in-between. :)

Q: We’re not really hikers, can we still get great views without going very far?

A: YES! There are so many spots all over the Phoenix Metro & Arizona in general that are incredibility accessible for all levels.

Q: Do we have to know how to pose?

A: Nope! That’s what I’m here for - I’ll help pose & prompt you two the entire time.

Q: What time should our session start?

A: For sunset sessions, I typically have us start about 1-2 hours before “official” sunset time. For sunrise session, we typically start about 15-20 minutes before “official” sunrise time.


Samantha Rose Photography is a Phoenix, Arizona based photographer specializing in elopements & couples photography. When she’s not photographing couples she can be found exploring the desert, planning her next trip to Sedona, or taking photos of the sunset (again).


Everything to know about Eloping

So before we dive into this, let me introduce myself. I’m Samantha Rose, I’m an elopement & intimate wedding photographer that’s based in Phoenix, Arizona. The reason I’m writing this is to help answer any questions people may have about what elopements are, how elopements work, & basically why they’re becoming more popular. For me, I’m all about helping create a day that’s special for you & your partner. Whether that’s going on an adventurous hike & saying your vows at the top of a mountain or having a small ceremony where you got engaged - you deserve to have your dream day exactly how you want. Let’s create a day that’s unique to the two of you & all about celebrating your love.

What to know about elopements

Arizona Elopement Photographer


Groom leads bride under the moonlight in front of the red rocks in Sedona, Arizona on their elopement day.

What is eloping?

Just to clear things up right at the beginning - no, you do not have to go to Vegas & get married by someone dressed up as Elvis. The idea of eloping has changed A LOT in just the last few years. When you Google the definition of “eloping” it says: “run away secretly in order to get married, especially without parental consent.” Again, this is NOT what eloping is anymore. I don’t think there is one exact definition of eloping, but to me - eloping is when you & your partner make the decision to have a wedding completely centered around the two of you. You’re not concentrating on putting on a party for other people or feeling like you have to include typical traditions. It’s a day focused around expressing your love (& most the time includes an epic adventure).


Are elopements just a trend?

Do I think elopements are becoming more popular? Absolutely. Do I think they are trendy? Absolutely. Do I think they’re going to stick around? Absolutely.

Elopements are on the rise, there’s no doubt about it. I do not think they are a trend that’s going to come & go though. Which makes me so happy. I LOVE that more couples are making the decision to have a day just about them. If a big, traditional wedding just doesn’t feel right to you - you’ve probably already started looking at the alternatives. I think it’s taken awhile for more people to start eloping because it’s felt a little taboo for so long. Couples have different reasons for eloping - whether it’s because of your relationship with your family or you just love the outdoors & want to center your day around that. When you’re surrounded by traditional weddings for so long & all the traditions that they entail - it can make you feel like that’s what you have to do. I’m here to tell you though that you can do whatever you want for your wedding.

The groom hugs his bride from behind while kissing her forehead during their elopement at Saguaro Lake in Arizona.

Do you tell people that you’re eloping?

The easiest way to answer this is that you can tell people that you’re eloping. If you want to. By no means do you have to tell anyone, but the “new norm” is that elopements aren’t something you run away & do & don’t tell people about. It’s still your wedding day - you’re just choosing to make it a celebration centered completely around the two of you.

If you think it will be easier for you & your partner to tell the people in your life afterwards that you decided to elope, then that’s probably the right decision for you two! The hard truth is that, not everyone may understand why you don’t want a traditional wedding. You may feel pressure from certain people in your life to not elope or to still try to do things in a way that isn’t true to you. By eloping, you may feel like you’re making a selfish decision, but that’s okay! You’re allowed to be selfish - it’s your wedding!

If you do want to tell people beforehand - have a plan for how to tell them if you think they may want you to go a more traditional route. Talk to your friends & family & explain why having an elopement means so much.


Can you include your family/close friends in your elopement?

Absolutely! You’ll probably find a lot of photographers referring to this as an “intimate wedding” because typically now elopements are referring to when it’s just the couple, the officiant, & photographer (& possibly videographer). No matter what you call it though, yes, you can include others.

Whether it’s a destination location or somewhere close to home - by having others there, it may change or affect how you go about your elopement day. You may want to say your vows on top of a mountain, but that may be unrealistic to have family members hike up there with you. Your loved ones can be waiting down at the bottom for you to celebrate once you’ve made it ‘official’ or maybe you want to say your vows at a simpler location with others around you & then head up by yourselves after for photos. Or maybe you want to go the route of having the whole day be just the two of you & then celebrating with all your friends & family at a small reception or dinner later on.

You have a lot of options. And a lot of things may factor in to what you decide to do. This is where I can help you figure out a realistic timeline for the day, choosing locations, & what may be the best option for your day.

Bride & groom dance around at Papago Park in Phoenix, Arizona during their elopement.

Is an elopement spur of the moment? Or can/do you plan it out?

This goes back to how elopements have changed a lot. Sometimes, elopements may still be spur of the moment. Plans change & people decide last minute that they don’t want to have a traditional wedding so in less than a month they plan an elopement.

I’d say this isn’t the typical thing to do anymore though. Just like a normal wedding - elopements take planning! You have to choose your attire, florals, photographer, videographer, hair & makeup artist & THE LOCATION! The best part about all of this is though - these are all decisions just focused around the two of you. You’re not figuring out plans for pleasing other people, which already makes the planing process a lot less stressful.

If you ask me though, if you know that you want to elope - don’t wait to plan it. You want to find vendors that feel right for your elopement day & most the time, you still will have to book things pretty far in advance (for photographers, it’s most typically a year). And when you factor in traveling - it’s still a lot to plan. I’m here to help you figure out all the details though.


Can I still include traditional things in my elopement?

Yes, absolutely! In case you haven’t picked up on this yet, you can do & include whatever you want.

Want to wait & see each other until you say your vows? You can!

Want to do a first look beforehand? You can!

Want to get ready together? You can!

Want to include something old, something new, something borrowed, & something blue? You can!

Want to write letters to each other & read them beforehand? You can!

You can include anything & everything or nothing at all. I’m here to help you plan it all & create your dream day, exactly how you imagine it.

*Bonus: Do you still go on a honeymoon if you elope?

I’d say this depends on where you decide to elope. If you’re choosing to stay in your home state for your elopement & just travel a few hours away, you’re probably still going to want to go somewhere for your honeymoon! If you’re traveling out of state or even out of the country though - the trip typically will be your honeymoon. You can plan your elopement at the beginning of the trip that way you can celebrate the rest of the time & use it as your honeymoon.

Bride and groom touch foreheads while standing in front of the red rocks in Sedona, Arizona during their adventurous elopement.

So… Should you elope?

If you ask me - yes. Without a doubt, I think you should elope. To me, eloping is one of the most romantic & intimate ways to begin your marriage. You’re focusing on just the two of you & your love & all the things that mean the most to your relationship.

This isn’t about what I think though - this is about what you want. Did you read this post & picture you & your partner saying your vows in a beautiful destination? Did the idea of not throwing a party for other people, but planning a day centered around exactly what you want excite you? Are you already looking up ‘best places to elope’? If you said yes to any of these - I think that should answer that eloping is probably right for you.

I want to help all the lovers & dreamers out there that want to take the not-so-typical route for their wedding day & plan an adventure solely around their love. For some, this may be a tough decision, but I’m here to help & plan all the details. If you have any questions about eloping or just want to chat - send me an email.


Samantha Rose Photography is a Phoenix, Arizona based elopement & intimate wedding photographer. She’s passionate about helping couples plan their dream adventure wedding focused around their love. When she’s not photographing couples she can be found hiking, planning her next trip, or binge watching Criminal Minds.

How to elope in Indiana & can you?

Can you get eloped in Indiana? How do you do it?

A groom runs with his bride on their elopement day at Turkey Run State Park in Indiana.

The short answer to this is - yes, of course you can elope in Indiana. Even though Indiana may get a bad wrap since it doesn’t have as popular of scenery as other areas in the United States, there are still so many locations that would make for an epic day. The thing about eloping is that you don’t have to do it on a mountain top, but you also don’t have to do it at a court house.

Before we dive into this all, let me talk about why I’m so passionate about couples eloping - anywhere. I’m originally from Indiana - I lived there for over 22 years of my life. Two years ago I moved out to Tempe, Arizona. Since moving here, I’ve completely changed the direction of my photography business. I went from pursuing big, traditional weddings to realizing what I really wanted to focus on was intimate, not-so-traditional elopements. I don’t think there is anything wrong with wanting a “typical” wedding, but I’m here to advocate for those couples that want their wedding/elopement day to be just about them.

So if you’re thinking about ditching a reception & wedding party & you want to go on an epic adventure with your significant other to express your love & say your vows - let me help you get started.

Groom & bride walk hand in hand during their elopement at Turkey Run State Park in Indiana.

So what all do you need to know about having an elopement?

What you’ll need:

  • Apply for a marriage license

  • Choose a ceremony location & check permits for your ceremony location

  • Choose an officiant to perform your ceremony

  • Decide if you want to be ‘legally’ married on the day of your elopement

  • Choose vendors

Bride and groom sit on a log inside of Turkey Run State Park during their intimate elopement in Indiana.

Apply for a Marriage License

  • You must have a marriage license to legally get married in Indiana

  • To apply for the license, you both must be present at the Clerk’s Office in an Indiana county where one of you resides - or for non-residents, in the Indiana county where the marriage will be solemnized (where your ceremony is performed).

  • You both must be at least 18 years old.

  • You both have to apply at the same time & bring a valid driver’s license or a state I.D. card (for proof of residency, identity, and date of birth).

  • The marriage license fee is $18 if one or both parties are Indiana residents & $60 for out-of-state residents (prices are subject to change so be sure to check beforehand). Some offices charge an additional document fee of $2. Most counties require these fees to be paid in cash.

  • The license is good for up to 60 days.

    More info about specific county laws can be found on the U.S. Marriage Laws website here.

Bride & groom balance on a log while hiking through Turkey Run State Park in Indiana during their adventure elopement.

Choose a Ceremony Location & Check Permits

This step is more up to what exactly you & your love are looking for. Do you have a place that holds a special meaning for you two? Do you want to go on a hike to an area you haven’t been before? There’s a lot to think about when choosing a location to say your vows & go on an intimate adventure. There are truly endless places, but these are just a few options to look at that have some amazing scenery. I think it’s important to choose a location that speaks to the both of you & ignites your heart with love & happiness when you think about saying your vows there.

Brown County State Park

Cataract Falls State Park

Clifty Falls State Park

Easter Pierhead Lighthouse in Michigan City

Hemlock Cliffs in Hoosier National Forest

Indiana Dunes National Park

Pokagon State Park

Turkey Run State Park (where the photos on this blog were taken!)

Different fees & permits apply for each location. Many locations in Indiana just require you to pay entrance fees.

Bride and groom hugging close inside Turkey Run State Park during their elopement in Indiana.

Choose an Officiant to Perform Your Ceremony

In the state of Indiana, you do not need any witnesses to get married, but you do need an officiant to perform the official ceremony. From the indy.gov website: A wedding officiant leads a marriage ceremony, verifies the information on the marriage license, & signs & completes the officiant’s section of the marriage license.

In Indiana, the following individuals may serve as an officiant at your wedding:

  • Judge

  • Clerk of the district court

  • Governor or lieutenant governor

  • Mayor, within the mayor’s county

  • Member of the general assembly

  • Member of a certified secular organization

  • Clerk or a clerk-treasurer of a city or town, within a county in which the city or town is located

  • Member of the clergy of a religious organization, such as a minister of the gospel, a priest, a bishop, an archbishop, a rabbi, or an imam (someone that is ordained via an online organization such as Universal Life Church would fall into this category).

Many people choose someone they are close with that is ordained to be their officiant (or have someone get ordained for them). Since it’s such an intimate day that doesn’t include many people - you want someone you can trust & feel comfortable around. Ultimately it’s up to what type of ceremony you’re looking for whether you want it to just include what has to be said, be more spiritual, or include other aspects.

My brother, A.J. Brammer, is actually ordained & has been the officiant for 8 weddings in 3 different states. If you’re looking for someone to perform your ceremony (whether it’s a full wedding or an elopement), but don’t have anyone in mind - send him an email at: arbrammer@gmail.com

Beautiful bride looks at her groom while they both sit on a log during their elopement in Indiana.

Decide if you want to be “legally” married on your wedding day

I’ll let you in on a little secret - a lot of people are usually married before their elopement day or sometimes after. The logistics & legalities of being officially married can sometimes be more complicated to deal with on your elopement day. If you choose to get all the paperwork done with ahead of time, that doesn’t make you any less married & it doesn’t change the meaning of your elopement at all! This day is still all about you & the love you have for each other. For most people, the day they say their vows is their true wedding day.

But if you do want to do it all on the same day, it’s not that hard. We just have to make sure we abide by Indiana’s waiting period, marriage license rules, & ceremony rules. In Indiana though, it’s super easy to include it all in one day - we just have to make sure to plan out all the details ahead of time.

Bride looks over her shoulder while holding her bouquet during her adventure elopement in Turkey Run State Park. Run State Park.

Choose Vendors:

This is the most fun part in my opinion.

You by no means need to include all of these things. In case you haven’t realized this yet, when it comes to elopements you can include or not-include anything you want. This is just a quick list to go off of that other eloping couples have included in their day before.

  • A Photographer

  • A Videographer

  • A Hair & Makeup Artist

  • A florist

  • A backdrop

    Need suggestions for vendors? I’ll be creating a list soon to share with all my Indiana couples.

    Have questions about what’s most important to include? Send me a message & let’s chat! I’m here to help you plan a stress free, meaningful day.

The groom pulls his bride in for a kiss while celebrating their marriage inside Turkey Run State Park.

I hope this post has been informative & at least has you & your partner considering eloping. No matter what you end up doing, your wedding day should be all about the two of you. You’re celebrating committing to each other & expressing your love - no matter how you go about doing that, don’t let other people make you feel like you need to include certain things or not do things a certain way. If you need help deciding what you should do for your day or even help telling people in your life that you don’t want a traditional wedding - let me help you find the right words.

Boho styled bride and groom sit on a hanging log over water inside of Turkey Run State Park on their elopement day.

This epic adventure was photographed last summer at Turkey Run State Park in Parke County, Indiana during a photo retreat hosted by Reagan Lynn Photography - check out some of her photos here from the day. Turkey Run State Park has a $7 fee to get into the park for in-state vehicles & a $9 fee for out-of-state vehicles. Want to plan your own epic adventure here? Let’s start planning your dream wedding that’s uniquely intimate to you & your partner. (And p.s. I do travel - with special rates for coming back to my home state of Indiana).


Hello! I’m Samantha Rose Photography (aka Samantha) - a Phoenix, Arizona based elopement & intimate wedding photographer. I’m passionate about helping couples plan their dream days to show their love for each other & go on an epic adventure. If you have any questions about elopements, booking me, or just want to chat - I’m here to help.